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Pain as a first resort

In common with other groups opposed to the abuse of children, the United Nations has confused judicious smacking with irrational violence (News, 10 October). Pain is a natural warning process and, applied appropriately, is extremely successful. When a child is too young to understand rational argument, usually in their first two or three years of life, smacking is often the only way to discipline them.

Pain is a natural warning process and, applied appropriately, is extremely successful. When a child is too young to understand rational argument, usually in their first two or three years of life, smacking is often the only way to discipline them.

Sadly, far too many people use smacking as a final resort, when they have already lost their temper and become out of control. This obviously results in unacceptable abuse of a child. If people were to use it as a first resort, it would be far less vicious and more effective.

However, even this misses the real issue. Any discipline, physical or otherwise, must be applied within a context of a loving relationship.

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