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Understanding your own feelings

Children with Asperger syndrome evoke strong feelings of frustration in people working with them. This is often followed by strong feelings of guilt because the needs of the child cannot be attended to or met. Adults need to understand and expect that when a such a child is introduced to pretend-play and imagination, he will find it very difficult, if not impossible, to engage in. In a peculiar way the child feels safe in his own world and frightened of relating to people in another way. Like the child, the adult will feel continuously frustrated, because neither of them can find a bridge to cross. These children may evoke feelings of despair, leading to anger and rage in the worker which do not often disappear after 5pm.

Like the child, the adult will feel continuously frustrated, because neither of them can find a bridge to cross. These children may evoke feelings of despair, leading to anger and rage in the worker which do not often disappear after 5pm.

Like the child and like the parents, the worker will at times feel disempowered, and then feel guilty about their sense of anger towards this child. Depression when working with these children is not uncommon for both parents and professionals.

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