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In my view: The impossibly perfect parents

My belief is that the 'parenting industry' is marketing a simplified and unrealistic view of parenting, which is based on the notion that to be a parent is a series of problems to be solved and techniques to be mastered.

But, if that really were the case, why do so many parents feel inadequate? Can being a parent really be only a combination of a few 'quick and easy' tips and techniques? Can parenting be that simple? Well, from my own experience as a parent, I would say absolutely not.

With all my years of training and experience, you would think that I am breezing through the upbringing of my own two children. With a mother like me who knows all the theory surely my children are models of the best-parented children.

Well actually, no - they are not.

I have found that if I automatically try to go to the prescriptive elements of what I know, even I, as the expert in innumerable case studies, still don't get it right with my kids.

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