A parent's guide to biting

When is a child likely to start biting?

Most children will go through a biting phase at some point in their lives.

The most usual time is in the second year, but some children do bite when they are three or so. Happily for us, most children settle for a 'one off'

biting spree in which they may bite just once or twice and then stop. This spate is often exploratory and can even be accompanied with a smile! The child is simply finding out what it feels like to bite. They will be very interested in your reaction. This means that it is important to handle this type of biting in a low-key fashion. Avoid laughing, even if it is funny, because otherwise your child will learn that this is something that adults seem to like. In the same way, you should also avoid getting cross because, again, children can learn that biting gives them adult attention. A good strategy is to say 'no' in a firm voice and even move the child away from you slightly. This helps the child to realise that this behaviour is not acceptable and does not pay dividends.