Listening to families

10 August 2005

Readers may be interested in the 'Listen' event organised by Tower Hamlets Early Years Service, which is encouraging nurseries in the borough to set up workshops for parents on communicating with their children through play. The George Green Children's Centre used the theme of favourite toys.

Readers may be interested in the 'Listen' event organised by Tower Hamlets Early Years Service, which is encouraging nurseries in the borough to set up workshops for parents on communicating with their children through play.

The George Green Children's Centre used the theme of favourite toys.

They asked the children to bring in a favourite toy or comforter (such as the child pictured), which were placed in attractive and informative displays. Parents were also invited to bring in their favourite 'toy' for a session in which they reflected on its importance to them.

Lots of parents and carers came and some of their stories were quite moving. They made the connection between their children's dependence on special toys and comforters, and their own dependence on things such as cars and phones. Children may be attached to toys or comforters to keep them connected with parents, while adults depend on cars and phones to keep them connected to friends and family.

Other settings put on different events which enabled even the youngest to express themselves through music and dance. Parents and carers were helped to appreciate that children communicate in many ways other than talking.

Gill Bowmaker, Foundation Stage advisory teacher, Tower Hamlets Early Years Service, London