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Educational therapist Andrea Clifford-Poston answers your queries about child behaviour Q In our pre-school playgroup we have a three-year-old boy who mixes well with the girls but seems to ignore the boys. He takes any chance to dress up as a girl. Last week his mother asked us not to allow him to do so and to 'make him play boy stuff'. We do not agree with this approach but do feel a bit concerned about him. Should we be?

Q In our pre-school playgroup we have a three-year-old boy who mixes well with the girls but seems to ignore the boys. He takes any chance to dress up as a girl. Last week his mother asked us not to allow him to do so and to 'make him play boy stuff'. We do not agree with this approach but do feel a bit concerned about him. Should we be?

A One thing seems clear - this little boy is curious about how it feels to be a girl! Let's think about this developmentally: imitation is an essential part of development for the under-fives and they learn by imitating the people and things that interest them.

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